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What is this mans deal. HELP!!!!! ?


So I haven't figured this libra male out yet ... Here is the scenario ... please ... anyone ... shed some light on this for me!!!!!

I knew this guys years ago ... like 13 or so ... he always liked me ... always tried to get into my pants and I was NOT interested ... He was such a little man-whore and I honestly was not even attracted to him. We would fight all the time because we were constantly around each other because we shared the same circle of friends. He was always picking on me, teasing me and making fun of me ... because I was the one girl that wouldn't jump in the sack with him ... he couldn't figure out what my problem was and it frustrated and angered him that he could not get me to give him any kind of play.

One night ... don't ask me how ... we ended up fooling around, but I would not give him sex (any kind of it). He left my home that night and we never kept contact.

Fast forward ... years later .. bump into each other and it was like we started right where we left off .. except we are much older now and more mature and are genuinely happy to see each other again. We decide to hang out and we end up all over each other ... nutz ... can't keep our hands off each other ... told him "come on lets do this we gotta get this out the way already ... we need to go back to your place hun" he said "wait ... you mean to tell me that if I have sex with you tonight you will never have sex with me again" ... I responded "most likely" ... I was being honest ... Needless to say we end up at his place ... we go a lot deeper this time, but then he cuts me off for the nite and tells me that he isn't going to do me in and that what I said at dinner was hurtful and maybe he wants more than that ... Ough the drama ... I was so pissed off that this guy left me hanging like that and didn't take advantage of the fact that I was there.

I keep flirting with him via text here and there and when I do the flirting is returned, but he has yet to budge and give it to me again or set a date for another "visit" to his crib. He is clearly attracted to me, but is also clearly keeping his distance. I can't get him to make the first move ... I always initiate the texts ... meanwhile back in the day I could have had him any day of the week. Why the distance ... he is not seeing anyone, he does have an insane business schedule, but I am not asking for a boyfriend ... I am asking for his insane sex.

What gives ... since when did it become so hard to get some from a guy ... its ridiculous really????

Sad .. because they way we carried on that night was insane and so friggin' good .. he told me .. "I have been jerking off in your name for 10 years ... You are exactly the way I imagined you would be in bed" ... sad sad sad ... we could really be having so much fun in the sack ya' know.

Please help me to understand what the deal is here ... ANYONE?!?!

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Sounds like he is playing a little game? The fact that you rejected him all those years ago might still be something he\'s carrying round still. Ask yourself if after waiting all these years, why the hurry to jump into bed with him anyway? You were not sure back then so why are you so sure now? Remember, you rejected him because you thought he was \"a man whore\" so why should he not think the same way about you now? Just as it was your prerogative all those years ago to say no, he can do the same. One final point, men like to do the chasing and if you\'ve simply sat down and said \"ok, let\'s do just it\" where is his motivation? If you\'re offering it on a plate, he may not have the appetite!! Give him a chance to woo you and see what happens - if he doesn\'t try, then time to move on :-)

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I agree with Oracle - you're killing his chance to hunt you down - emasculation ain't good ;-)

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