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Should i pursue her?


I recently approached this girl that i had been really nervous 2
approach.kind of used books as a means 2 talk to her.We had a
surprisingly stimulating convo even though she was 3 desks away from
me.she seemed relaxed and her sister was like it was nice 2 meet you
and so 2 her sister
The next day,she sat 2 seats on my right with her sister 2 seats
infront of her.she came early that day which i mentioned 2 her,she
politely smiled...throughout my time reading i noticed swinging of the
chair.(if that should mean anything).Also as one girl 'discussed' with
me,she looked for a bit.and then if that wasn't enough,some other chic
came and waved.*urrgh*.she looked as well.unfortunately a
barrier(person) came and sat between.
The day after that,i came a bit late which her sister actually
commented on.I looked for a place just 2 seats ahead and said hi...She
was walking back and i asked her out and was like we should get
somethin 2 eat like after classes.she said she'll think about it.about
an hour later her sister led the way after they'd sat 2gether.My crush
said she was leaving with her sister and she said perhaps i could
postpone it 2 some other time.
I passed by usual time and from my point of view.she wasn't there.
The following day,her sister did the same and kinda avoided seein me.
What should i do?

168 day(s) ago

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Hey Anon, you don't say how old you are? I'm guessing you are at College? Either way, here's my two pennies worth...

First well done for having the balls to talk to this girl - takes guts and you clearly have that. Secondly - no girl in her right mind is going to commit to anything and she probably does think you are cute/ok but unfortunately one little chat isn't going to turn her into your girlfriend overnight - you have to work harder :-) Sounds like she's noticing you from what you say and especially if other girls are getting your attention. Don't go down the 'make her jealous route' either as she'll think you are a complete turd but don't fall at her feet either - keep a safe distance and she'll know you are interested - when the time is right, you'll speak again and that'll be it - young loves dream ;-) Good luck!

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Raw_knee
152 day(s) ago
Yes you were right...I am in college how'd ya know?
I actually asked her out for bowling like 2 days before the sem ended.She said yes but unfortunately she coldn't for a like an hour.Though maybe its in my head but she came smartly dressed that day...
I asked for her number n she said her phone was off n at home.I know she lied about this one coz she's a bit young and i've never seen her or her sis carry a phone,so she probably doesn't have one. She asked for my phone though.
I'm really glad i got at least this farthanks for the vote of confidence


Anonymous
What do you want to do?

Posted 158 days ago

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