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How do I get to know the cute male trainer at my gym?


So here's the deal. Yesterday, I went to get a fitness test at my gym, and I was assigned to a very cute trainer. We flirted and it seemed as though he was attracted to me. I told him I came to the gym almost every day, and near the end of our session, he said something like, "You come here everyday then right? So do I, so I'll see you around."

I want to keep talking to him and getting to know him, but I know that's hard to do at a gym, especially since he works there. I don't really want to have him help me with the workout stuff unless I really need it (and then of course I'll ask him). The other issue is that he knows I'm 19, and I'm guessing he's about 24 or 25. I'm afraid he might think I'm too young, or off limits or something. I consider myself a pretty girl, and I've been told by many people that I'm very mature for my age. What should I do? Should I wait for him to make a move because of our age difference? I usually don't like to wait too long, but I want to do this the right way. Help!

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Oracle 		Hi B,

Do you really think that you are the ONLY person he says that to? What if he's just being friendly? And there you are, planning the wedding already!! Unless he asks you out (and by that, I mean actually says the words "Would you like to go on a date/drink etc", I would carry on with getting fit :-) if you have misunderstood the situation and he turns out not to be interested/gay/already taken, you're not going to want to hang out at that gym for much longer are you? If he's interested he will pursue you, no matter what. If he's not, focus on your workout programme!

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