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Why doesn't he find me attractive?


So I feel like so many guys think I'm hot, even one's that I wouldn't think would but this one guy, who I know is below me on an attractiveness scale (not that it matters), but what does matter is he doesn't make me feel as beautiful as all these hotter guys. Problem is I don't want these hotter guys, I want him! When I'm with him I could care less about how he looks. And yes he tells me I'm beautiful and sexy but I still don't feel like he honestly feels that way. Am I just being stupid for thinking he would be more drawn to me or is there something actually wrong with my relationship? And also we've been dating for four years and yes this is something I've been feeling only recently and it doesn't make any sense to me. And by no means do I go around thinking I'm hot but I would think that I must be pretty attractive since every guy I've ever wanted has always wanted me back and so many of them I would consider being hotter than me but they seem to disagree. So why is it that this one guy that I want so badly, nerd and all, never seems to truly acknowledge my "beauty" like other guys do. What's wrong with me? Or does it have to do with the fact we've been dating so long so things are just cooling down. I feel pathetic for even feeling this way....

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I imagine there's very little space in the relationship what with your ego - no wonder the guy doesn't tell you he finds you attractive - you seem to doing a good job on your own! I would take a long hard look at yourself to try and understand why you feel the need to constantly have someone else re-affirm how attractive you are. Beauty is not neccessarily about what you look like, it's about who you are inside. If you have been with someone for four years then there's bound to be some change in how partners view each other. Sure, the sex becomes less, the admiring comments are less frequent but on the other hand, the love can be stronger and the trust greater. Decide on what you are really worried about and TALK to your partner - that's what partners are there for :-) Good luck!

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