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Does she like me?

I'm a freshman in college. I met this girl during my first week at school and thought she was pretty cute but never really pursued her at all. Then one thing led to another and we starting hanging out with the same people and numbers got exchanged. That's just some background.

Now where it gets interesting.

So a couple of weeks ago me and my best friend were just hanging out in his dorm since we didn't want to party that night and this girl and her friend show up decently drunk. Not hammered but definitely buzzing a bit. So we're just hanging out watching some Netflix and me and this one girl end up just snuggling a bit by the end of the night. Then she goes home. Well since then I had been getting a lot of texts from her and such and I wasn't really interested so I didn't really answer in a flirty way too much.

Well, the weekend after that, I went out partying with a couple friends. After walking a couple of my extremely hammered friends back to a friend's dorm, I get a call from this girl asking me to come to the house she was at. I was getting the vibe that she was into me so I said maybe I would head over there but I ended up going to a different party. Well I head back to my friend's dorm pretty drunk and get a call from her asking to come over. At this point I was falling asleep so I told her I would text her in the morning. Which I did.

I would like to apologize for the length, but I feel like all of this is valid information.

Anyways, so now this last weekend we were both with the same group of people only she had to DD so I was very drunk and she was very sober by the end of the night. We get back to school and she asks what I'm doing the rest of the night (By the way, our school has a policy on boys in freshman girls dorms after 2am on the weekend). I had recently gotten in trouble earlier that week so I said I was going to head back to my room eventually. She seemed sort of disappointed but said ok. Then, later we were getting bored so she asked if I wanted to go up to her room for a bit to which I said ok. At about 1 am we're in her room and I said I was probably going to head out at 2am. Well, one thing led to another and we ended up kissing until about 1:45 which is when I decided I was not going home.

Anyways, I won't go into detail about the "incident" all I will say is that we didn't have sex. In the morning, I was expecting it to be a bit awkward but it was quite the contrary. We ended up **************until I needed to leave (around noon). We had a good good bye kiss and I went on my way. I got some flirty texts from her again and now, seeing as I had become attracted to her at some point before the kiss, I responded flirtely as well.

Now this is where I'm stuck. Somewhere during Saturday she stopped giving me the same text responses that I was used to from her. I don't know if she was just in a bad mood or what but I was a bit confused. I saw her later that night but never really got a chance to talk to her too much. Now this entire week, I have been initiating all the texting and she still replies with thoughtful responses but she hasn't initiated anything. I rarely see her on campus as well and with finals coming up, I barely have time for anything but homework. She's still friendly, just not as much as before.

So my question is, where do I go from here? Does it seem like she is still interested or did she get what she wanted from me and now she's lost any sort of sexual attraction to me? I'm not all that attached but if I was just another hookup, then I would like to know so I can stop wasting my time going for something. However, I do like her enough to pursue something more with her if there's something to pursue.

Again thanks for reading (if you've made it this far). I appreciate the help.

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