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Hi there;

Basically I like this girl but she is confusing me with her behaviour. I was hoping you could shade some light on it, here are some facts:

-she sometimes calls me needy (not sure if she's joking)
-she thinks I look "cute" and I'm handsome
- she has recently split from her bf which she said she found hard as she loved/loves him very much . However he treated her really badly
-while in the relationship she said if she was single she would probably ask me out
-she knows I think she's very attractive
-a few months ago while in the relationship she said that I was her "ideal man"
-she pokes me with her fingers a lot lol and sometimes wants to pinch my cheeks lol
-I think she has the impression that I am a player and chase loads of girls
-we flirt quite a lot and few people tell her she should be with me
-she thinks I'm quite sensitive

Anyway I quite like her I think but am not sure what her behaviour really means. I would greatly appreciate it to hear of your ideas. Many thanks and Happy New Year!

Chris

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Hi Chris,

I just asked a male friend about this and interestingly he thought she might be a bit of an attention seeker. He justified his comment by pointing out that the girl has already enjoyed your attention while she was in a relationship, which could be due to the lack of attention in the relationship. She has now got your attention on tap, making herself feel good, but with a certain disregard for your feelings. Have you told her how you feel and how you would like the friendship to develop?

(Answer courtesy of my friend!!)

Good luck!x


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Lisa 		Hi Chris!

I get the feeling this girl likes you! She may be playing games though I think she doesn't realise she is doing it and she probably thinks her behaviour is cute.

My ideas? Tell her how you feel and where you want to go with this, if she says no, look at someone else. If this girl is giving you so much attention there are bound to more girls who would do the same given half a chance :-))

Have fun and enjoy yourself!

Lisa xxxx

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steviex 		Hey Chris,

Sounds like she's giving you the signs! Watch out for the rebound thing - chicks do that a lot! If shes only just split up give it a bit of time before trying to get any closer then you'll know what shes really feeling.

Good luck and Happy New Year!

Stevie

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